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My 8 year old entrepreneurial daughter a future disruptor !!, a mother's perspective.

November 19, 2017

The two statements don't appear to fit together, eight year old and entrepreneur !! We always think of entrepreneurs as much older and experienced, or perhaps the modern day entrepreneurs who dropped out of school to become entrepreneurs because the school system did not fit their needs.

But what about if we had an education approach that built the mindset of an entrepreneur into every child, to help support them to find their passion, whatever that was, at the same time give them the skills they need to deal with the world of the future. Schools are only part of the story you also need to have the right mindset as a parent, below are the words from such a parent, who's child is Shailaja, an 8 year old Entrepreneur.

 

 

 

The following words are from Komi Sam, a mother trying to empower her daughter to be all she can and wants to be, the mother of Shailaja, an 8 year old Entrepreneur.

 

“She’s 8 years old, and she’s the CEO of her own company?? How is that possible? She must be

extraordinarily gifted and uniquely laser focused!”

That is generally the reaction I get when people learn about Shailaja and her company, Bloom. Full

disclosure — my darling daughter is neither gifted, nor focused, laser or otherwise! What she is, is

eight, and all that comes with that wonderful age. She is a bundle of energy, always silly and

playful, compassionate and kind, curious yet opinionated, and stubborn as an ox.

 

At the same time, she is creative and full of ideas. Within her, as does in every child, exists an

strong innate desire to bring those ideas to life. This desire is fueled solely by their unique make

up as children, in that they haven’t learned to fear failure. That is, until we adults teach them to,

albeit with the best of intentions, of course, because we think we need to prepare them for the

real world! And so slowly, that spirit that comes with the innocence of childhood, the inner voice

that tells them they can do anything they can dream, that light that was meant to guide them to

greatness, gets smaller, quieter and dimmer every day, until they learn a new modus operandi :

self-censorship. They begin to develop filters that kick in the moment they have a nonconventional

thought : “That’s not a good idea. People will laugh at me. I can’t do it. I’m not smart

enough. I’m don’t know how. What if I’m wrong?”

 

So how does this relate to my daughter starting her tea company at the ripe old age of 7? Well,

she hasn’t been taught to fear failure. On the contrary, the phrases very commonly heard in our

home is “Thats a great idea! Walk me through it and help me understand. How can I help you?”

and when even a shadow of doubt or fear sets in, these follow : "If you never try, you’ll never

know. What have you got to lose by giving this a shot? What’s the worst thing that could happen if

you do this?”. These apply to the simplest things like trying a new food, all the way to doing

something as unthinkable as starting a business at the age of 7. But these aren’t just empty

platitudes tossed at a kid, rather they are discussion catalysers that enable her to apply equal

measure of reason and wonder in a safe, judgement-free environment.

 

We build that environment for her at home, with great conscious effort and to the best of our

abilities, measuring words we use and modelling actions we want her to see and learn from. But

we know that despite all our best efforts, if the work we do gets undone the second she sets foot

in school, then we’re dragged back to square one at the end of every day. In many schools,

children are expected to sit still, be quiet, do only as they’re told, not voice any opinions, not offer

up suggestions, not to question, to take their teacher’s words for gospel truth and are punished

for the smallest infractions. How does this method allow free thought, creative ideas and critical

thinking to flourish? It doesn’t, it just quashes it!

 

Once children enter a formal education setting, parents give up at least half the influence and time

they get with their children to these institutions. No matter how much parents are able to guide

their children, whatever values they instill and self-worth they build up its still only half of what

their child hears, sees and experiences, which all go towards forming who they become as

individuals.

 

School has the ability to shape the child’s thoughts, mold their view of the world and

cement their place in it as well as instilling in them their self-worth and core beliefs (limiting or

otherwise). This is why learning institutions and the educators within them need to allow children

to be children, encourage that spirit of wonder and facilitate their discovery of the world through

their own eyes. It’s imperative they be allowed to voice their ideas and see them through, as much

as possible within the confines of curriculum and learning objectives.

 

As far as we are concerned, her academic performance is where it should be. The bigger emphases in our academic expectations of her are actually more related to her attitude and understanding. I mandate hard work and it’s more important to me that she understands the material and subject matter, rather than being a good test taker. To quantify, she’s come in second in her class on all her core subjects’ final grades. My greater joy comes from seeing her determination to do better and her subsequent efforts to support that desire.

 

It’s a fine balance and a monumental task, not one that is easily achieved, but one that produces

confident, capable, brave, strong children who believe wholeheartedly that anything is possible,

with lots of hard work, some ingenuity, and the right guidance. There are many fine institutions in

the world, thankfully, that are now starting to do just this. Dwi Emas International School in Kuala

Lumpur, Malaysia is one such school blazing the trail in Asia, and we have the fortunate pleasure

of being a part of this amazing institution.

 

Dwi Emas is more than a school, it says so in their credo. Their core focus is on developing each

child alongside their unique gifts, and is heart-led education at its root. Children are truly heard,

given opportunities to be critical thinkers, skill sets to be effective producers, and multiple

platforms to bring their ideas to life. What also exists here is the support network across the entire

organisation with the sole goal of empowering every child that walks their halls.

 

These kids don’t have to wait to be in their 20s to be “disrupters” as the Uber generation of entrepreneurs and inventors are. They’re doing it now. We are thankful every day that we found the school that is in

line with our core values, one that builds on the foundation we create at home, and together,

we’re raising a child who will one day change the world. It’s in this environment that my 7 year old

said, “I want to start a tea company!” and all the voices that came back (from within and without)

said, “Why not? Go for it! You’ve got this, and we’ve got your back!”

We all have extraordinary answers to the question, “What would you do if you knew you couldn’t

fail?”. Children have some pretty awesome answers too. Try asking them sometime.

 

 

 

You can see and hear Shailaja share her Entrepreneurial story at Xcited, in Helsinki on November 30th (www.xedu.co/xcited) part of the SLUSH 17 event (www.slush.org). You can also catch my interview with Shailaja and some other young entrepreneurs at https://goo.gl/k1FpwT.

 

 

For more information on Dwi Emas school, check out https://dwiemas.edu.my/


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